Thursday, June 30, 2011

Baby This Week: 24 weeks

Your baby's growing steadily, having gained about 4 ounces since last week. That puts her at just over a pound. Since she's almost a foot long (picture an ear of corn), she cuts a pretty lean figure at this point, but her body is filling out proportionally and she'll soon start to plump up. Her brain is also growing quickly now, and her taste buds are continuing to develop. Her lungs are developing "branches" of the respiratory "tree" as well as cells that produce surfactant, a substance that will help her air sacs inflate once she hits the outside world. Her skin is still thin and translucent, but that will start to change soon.

Monday, June 27, 2011

Toddler This Week: 17 Months, Week 4

It will be a year or two before your toddler leaves most of his tantrums behind. Until then, expect to deal with outbursts of anger and frustration on a regular basis. You can cut down on the frequency of tantrums by making sure your child gets enough sleep and eats well during the day. It's probably unrealistic to expect your energetic toddler to sit still for three square meals a day, so try giving your child a variety of foods throughout the day. Remember, a hungry, sleep-deprived toddler is a meltdown waiting to happen.

What would the world be like if we all acted on every impulse? If adults had no self-control? Observe a couple of 17-month-olds and in no time you'll have some idea: chaos. Children aren't born with self-control, so when your toddler is hungry, he wants to eat ... immediately. When he wants the toy his friend is playing with, he wants it ... right now! He doesn't understand that screaming won't make the food come any sooner (even though this method worked when he was a newborn), or that forcefully grabbing a toy is going to upset his playmate.

Since toddlers want what they want when they want it (passionately!), explaining the consequences of their actions won't give you immediate results. But go ahead and try. Explaining things in a reassuring voice is good practice for the future and if you do it with lots of affection and physical contact, you'll make it easier for your toddler to stay calm when he needs to wait a little bit or cooperate with you.

Though it may seem impossible at times, if you are warm and patient when your toddler is most trying, you may find that he's more willing to settle down. Try to show your happiness when your toddler cooperates and complies with your requests, but be prepared to remove him from the situation if he won't.

Quick! What's the quickest way to stop a tantrum? Cave in to your toddler's demands, right? Now, what's the best way to guarantee that the tantrums will continue? Same thing. If you reward your child for "stopping" his tantrum, he'll figure it out pretty quickly. And he'll have tantrums just so he can get what he wants. But if you simply ignore the tantrum, which may be difficult to do sometimes, he'll learn just as quickly that this behavior doesn't move you and he'll likely stop. If you're in a public place such as a restaurant or store, your best bet may be to leave with him until he calms down.

It may help you to deal with your toddler's tantrums if you understand what's behind them, at least in part. At 17 months a child may want to master stacking five blocks on top of one another. Or he's determined to put his own shoes on, to ride his older sister's bike, or to eat with a fork. When he can't, he may get frustrated. Tantrums are more likely to occur when your child is hungry, tired, or over-stimulated. Sometimes a tantrum is a plea for your attention: a reassuring hug and your undivided attention can make the storm clouds go away.

Tantrums aren't easy for parents. It can be hard to listen to a lot of crying, or to have your child be angry at you. But tantrums are a completely normal part of toddler development.

-BabyCenter.com


At Toys R Us with Mommy and Tia Yaya!

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Julian's 1st Birthday!

Celebrating Julian's first birthday!

















Just My Kid

Aunt Blanca had been away in Ecuador and brought Mila back this gorgeous dress and these Plaza Sesamo books!






Friday, June 24, 2011

Orlando - Around Town

We left the hotel and started our drive back to Fort Lauderdale, but Mommy wanted some ice-cream! So we searched for a Coldstone's Creamery nearby, and we ended up in the adorable shopping center with really nice architecture. Couldn't help myself but pull out the camera!














Orlando - In the Kiddie Pool

Our last day in Orlando, we went down to the kiddie pool so Mila could play. I was sunburned from yesterday (despite many layers of sunblock!!) so I stayed in the shade taking pictures.

It was Mila's first time in a kiddie pool, so it was totally understandable that Jorge was a bit protective of Mila. You can see how the in the first 15 minutes, Jorge didn't let her go, not even for an instant! But  then he finally let her venture off. This is exactly how your Daddy is with you all the time! Always careful with his little girl. He loves you so very much!! :)








Daddy letting go!





Orlando - Waking Up with Mila

Mila loves the king sized bed! We had a crib brought to our room and I was afraid that she might not like it because it wasn't hers. We figured she would just end up sleeping with us if she didn't. But nope, she was happy sleeping in the hotel crib next to our bed and then when she woke up, we would cuddle with her in ours. Love it!






Oh, how I love this little girl!!

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